First thing’s first – congratulations on your engagement! Whether you’re just starting the planning process or you’re getting married soon and are smack bang in the middle of organising your to-do list, you’ll need to take some time to consider wedding gifts.
Wedding gifts may seem like small fries compared to arranging a venue, food, and entertainment, but a wedding list is a key part of the planning that many couples mistakenly leave until the last moment. Has your wedding list fallen to the back of your mind?
When the majority of couples already live together, it’s fairly common for couples to request monetary gifts for their wedding. But despite the fact that some couples prefer money, there are still many who prefer traditional gifts. But what do you put on a wedding list? What are the benefits of wedding lists? And what should you put on yours? Creating a wedding list can be a fun and exciting activity for you and your partner. Here, we answer these questions, plus give you some inspiration for your own wedding list.
What is a wedding list?
Also sometimes referred to as a wedding registry, a wedding list is a collection of items and experiences that you would hope to receive as gifts from your wedding guests. Wedding lists traditionally include a wide range of choices. By including items at various price points, your wedding list allows guests to find something meaningful within their budget and comfort zone, whether they prefer to contribute individually or pool resources with others for larger items.
Wedding lists eliminate the uncomfortable scenario where guests worry they’ve chosen poorly, and couples feel obligated to display or use gifts they don’t love. Everyone wins when expectations are clear from the start.
What do you put on a wedding list? How to make a wedding list
Putting together a wedding list should be a fun and exciting part of preparing for your big day! Pull up your diary and pop an evening with your partner in the calendar. Have a lovely relaxing dinner together, pop some of your favourite tunes on and get set up on the sofa with a glass of your favorite vino and your laptops.
Start by having a chat about how you might like to remember or commemorate your special day and any gifts that you might like that will last a lifetime and remind you of your wedding. Start by making a long list and you can then go back through it to revise and narrow it down to what really matters to both you and your partner. Have you just moved in together and would like some items to really make it feel like home? Maybe you’re not really into material things and are more interested in experiences?
Sharing your wedding list
It is a good idea to send your wedding list out at the same time as your wedding invitations, approximately three to four months prior to your wedding. This ensures your guests have plenty of time to order in advance of the big day.
Benefits of creating a wedding list
- Reduces stress for guests: Instead of spending hours wondering what you might need or already have, your guests can choose from items you’ve specifically selected, making their shopping experience stress-free and enjoyable.
- Ensures the couple receives desired gifts: A wedding list ensures every gift serves a purpose in your new life together and guarantees you’ll love each and every gift. Rather than receiving duplicate items or things that don’t suit your style, you’ll unwrap presents that truly enhance your home and relationship.
- Simplifies the gift-giving process: A wedding list does all the hard work for your guests so they don’t need to spend hours researching, simply select something from your carefully curated list.
Wedding gift ideas for adventurous couples
TRIPP Holiday 8 Watermelon Medium Suitcase
A suitcase (or set of) can make a fantastic wedding gift for couples who love to travel and explore all the wonders of the world. We love this medium sized suitcase from TRIPP. A reliable brand, it comes with a 5-year guarantee, is lightweight and has a classic design so you know it’ll look great for years to come.
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FlightGift Card
Want to inspire and support your friends’ wanderlust but don’t know where they want to head next? No problem! FlightGift allows you to give money specifically towards travel so your friends can put it towards their next adventure.
Personalised Couples Luggage Tag Set
These leather luggage tags are the perfect thoughtful travel accessory for adventurers. The leather and personalisation adds a touch of luxury that will be a reminder of you every time they pick up their suitcases.
Wedding gift ideas for homebodies
Bialetti Moka Express Hob Espresso Coffee Maker
This classic Espresso maker is a staple in Italian homes and is a lovely gift for fellow caffeine fiends! Your friends will be thankful to you for this gift every single morning!
Anton Studio Designs Empire Glass Champagne Saucer
A great gift for couples who love to entertain, this beautiful set of Champagne coupe from Anton Studio Designs is perfect for toasting special occasions. Want to pick up some bottles of fizz too? Take a look at our Champagne Gift Guide.
Le Creuset Signature Enamelled Cast Iron Round Casserole Dish
You can’t go wrong with a classic Creuset cast iron enamelled casserole dish to last a lifetime. A brand synonymous with quality, their casserole dish is a wonderful gift for couples who love to entertain friends and family.
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After the wedding
Don’t forget to show your gratitude to your guests by sending them individual thank you letters as soon as possible after the big day to show your appreciation. Happy wedding planning! We hope this guide has been helpful and wish you all the best for your big day.
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